YOUNG ADULT

Young adult, a person in their late teens or early twenties. Despite of any background one has, the phase of a young adult is the most beautiful and most adventurous for all. This is the phase, where everything feels timeless, daring, exciting, and buoyant. The one isn’t so careful about the consequences, in fact sometime, they don’t even think about it at all. As they tend to be full of courage and optimistic attitude that they feel, they can turn everything possible. Wow, isn’t this so damn blithe, amiable, and feels like this phase just continue for life time, and we never grow old or be an adult for real?

I’m sure everyone wishes the same thing, and it’s completely natural to think in that way around, as this is the phase, that everyone envy.

When I’m describing that “Everyone and everything feels same”, here I’m not talking about the situations or the conditions, but I’m trying to elucidate the ‘Energy’. I am well aware about the stuff that, nobody has the same kind a life style, so surely the conditions differs but still the energy of all young adults remain same!

Meantime, talking about the feelings, the most common feeling, that comes in the front row is about the “Love Life”. At this age, everyone tends to fall for someone, they tend to have their 1^st love or else get attracted towards various people physically and emotionally. The feeling of dating someone, being someone’s priority and getting the affection and care comes naturally to all.

At this phase, we all want someone special, we try to elongate the relations and add up few more in our list. The connection with various people start to have a real names or tagline with it. And these compelling connection has deep grounded roots in our heart, memories and experiences. At this phase whatever happens, most of them tend to be the 1^st experience or the 1^st attempts in our life.  And this is not so new, the sensation of the first love, dating, first heart break  or anything similar is  as same and as powerful as it was back then in the 1940’s & 50’s or even before that.

The fantasy of being a young adult is more than anything, anyone will ever experience. It’s unlike that, the one will only have the experience of love at this phase, but more than anything, they tend to evolve mentally, physically and emotionally.  The attempts, struggles, failures, heart breaks and the success that young adult go through at this phase, will carry a lifelong lessons, which no one can forget, in their lifetime. So no wonder, this phase be way too precious for all. Even if you sit down and ask your adults about their young adult stories, then they will have tons of them to share with you, and you will come to realize how common and how natural your feelings and activities are. Along with that, not only these stories be interesting and entertaining but going to help and aware you about the “DON’Ts” & "DOs" of this phase and life.

But still at this phase, the one is way too stubborn and persistent about their own wills and feelings. No matter how many stories or awareness they hear, young adult will be listening to their own young heart and will be doing what they think is right. Yet, I suggest it's better sometime to have double thoughts and try remembering your adult’s words, before you jump up on doing anything creepy. However, I believe in having proficiency and collecting experiences, so we got to try doing as much adventurous stuff as we can, at this phase, by way of, this energy won’t come back again,in same frequency you have for now.

“YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A TIME TO GROW OLD, BUT WON’T GET A CHANCE TO BE THIS YOUNG AGAIN”