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Thursday, November 19, 2015

Happiness


There are more than 7 billion people in this world, same like me and you. Every single one of us is struggling, trying to have our future better than the past. Not just a poor but even the richest of all, everyone fight a battle every single day to live and survive. And this is something, the will of wanting to do better than the past is common between all the humans. We may have different ways of living, but at the end all we need is happiness. We may or may not be satisfied but still more than any other thing all we are searching is Happiness.

We are not in the race or marathon of money, fame or anything else but we are still running, running to gain that internal happiness and one infinite smile.

We gain happiness only after completion of our inner desires. Your inner desire can be anything, money, fame, love,power, sex, prosperity, traveling, dancing, readig, writing, painting or singing and even eating or just sleeping. And once you do what is there in your heart and complete or just attempt to do the desired stuff you get happiness. You become happy once you do what you want.
And if that was that simple to be happy, why aren't we happy? You know what is the main cause for us not being happy?
That's we, ourselves. We become a barrier to our own happiness, by stopping ourselves from doing what we want. We avoid our desire calling it to be stupid, small, unnecessary or blaming it to other saying someone said not to do it and you didn't do it. I mean, how can someone say it and you do it or you quit it, now that's the biggest stupidity. It is very important to take an opinion but it is equally important to think in that opinion before you apply it moreover it is very important to have your own opinion 1st before you go for others. Don't kill your desire and your ambition for any sake. It's completely fine to dream and desire of anything, it's your right but the only thing you can't do is to violate someone's else's rights or harming other.

If you say you have a desire to bang someone's nose, and shall you do that? Just cause I said you must do whatever you desired than mind you 1st, before you act think.
You have your own brain, think, use it. And at any moment you think you are not sure about your point than go and seek  helps, have talks and discuss what you feel like and ask others for their views. And now coming back to that question of banging someone's nose, just cause you desired doesn't mean you need to do it. You have to have a clear vision and distinguish what are your desire and do you really need to do all of them or not. Meantime you have to keep your mind open for others, you have to be aware you can't hamper other people, you have to say it to yourself louder "mind your own business" ! And if you are wondering what does that saying means then it means 'Do something what makes you happy, without interrupting anyone else's happiness.'

We must know the way we love our stuff and we take care of our desires in the same way others do. We all are same, all of us have that one same heart just the different is we raise it in a very different way but the ultimate achievement is to make it bigger and healthier and raise it with love and purity.

Gaining happiness is not tough, I don't get it why we human make it such a big issue. Actually all you have to do is nothing. Yes! Absolutely nothing !
And now if you are wondering again, if doing nothing can bring all the joy, why are we even struggling all day long, why are we working so hard? Then, let me mind you all over again, all the great things are achieved with Love and Patience. But the problem is that we cannot explore our love and patience.
We are made up in such way, that we have to do something. We can't stay a minute without doing anything, and let me aware you that every little thing counts, just working and letting your sweat come out just does not mean doing something. Every process at which our thinking power is used means doing something. So none of us can stay without working.  But saying so, I don't mean you have to stop your thoughts but I mean to use it but do nothing.
Let me not confuse you more (haha) .
For that ultimate goal of happiness all you have to do is nothing. The thing that we do the most is over thinking leading towards a stress. And the stress is the biggest enemy of our happiness. We become sad or angry for each and everything. The things that happened, just happened and the thing that will happen,will happen, we can't do anything, Karma will show. But the present is something we have. We can change nothing by stressing, past cannot be changed and future is the rrfelction of your present so all you have is
All we have to do is leave the tensions in a side and forget it. Just concentrate on the things you want and do what your heart askes you, ride this cylce of your life by yourself. Don't try to handle anyone else's or let anyone to handle your life. Go with the flow, dream every single day,  share love and be the part of someone's happiness and call others in your happiness. The thing that's meant to be, will be, your stress not gonna change anything so stop doing that.
Learn to take a break and peace your mind in the brezze of love and fulfill all of the desires.
Moreover, you can't be happy unless you become prepared and give a call to your heart and Brian that, no matter what is the situation " I am happy and I will be Happy - Happiness is all around me" , and this can be a magical spell and you can be happy instantly by doing nothing so special. So prepare yourslef for happiness even if your not, force it and desire it and you will attract it.
 Don't be afraid ! Live ! Love ! Be Happy !

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